Wednesday, August 31, 2005

New Artist Links . . . . Songsters and Tellers of Truth

You have got to check these out!

Some new artist links of some of our favorite artists. . . . all of them share one thing in common: INTEGRITY. To the music, to saying it like it is, to their fans.

One sentence descriptions:

Bill Mallonee: Indie Americana Songster with a voice that grabs your t-shirt in a dark alley to remind you he's been hobo-ing on the Truth Train much too long to let you get away with "easy."

Aimee Mann: Deceptively smooth voice describes the depth of the world's emptiness but refuses to blow out the last candle.

Jars: No one sounds like them. That should be enough to listen.

POD: Front-line, hard-core--blasting the rock-rap before it was cool--warriors who will be reggae-ing the globe when it becomes cool. They write songs for fighting, and we all need a little of that.

You'll need Quicktime or Windows media player for the POD site, but its worth it. You'll also have to wait for the download, but then a real treat: watching them record with a Hasidic Reggae artist. They claim their new album coming out late fall, "Testify," will be the album of their career. BIG CLAIM. But these guys have always backed up what they say with action. They're being produced by the same guy who gave Alanis Morrisette her jagged little pill.

Enjoy.
D

Monday, August 29, 2005

Word Verification for Comments

If you're leaving a comment on a post in the main column, you'll notice there's an extra step called "word verification." I hate extra steps!

But we've been getting spammed in our comment columns by computers leaving stupid advertisements. . . . can you believe it?!!

So please bear with the extra step. It keeps this site clean from robots (and businesses), and only allows humans (and friends) to speak.

Sunday, August 28, 2005

New "Tag Board" on this Blog:

There’s a little box (called a “tag board” or “chat box”) in the sidebar to the right where you can write general comments or messages to the Kunkel Fam or other friends!  

Please be aware that we may not be able to write back, but we WILL read them.  

The “tagboard” is a great little invention to increase a sense of community on this site.  Is that really possible?!!  Community through computer screens?  I’m not so sure about it, but we’ll give it a try.

Give it a shot. . . . say what you think. . . . make a comment. . . . begin a discussion with others . . . . (We retain the right to remove any “offensive” material from the board).

Happy bloggage!

Wednesday, August 24, 2005

A New Link!

For those who are actually interesting in this kind of thing. . . .

I've created a site to handle the stuff I'm working on regarding the wild, boys and men who like to be in it, and the stories we tell.

You can click on the new link in the right column called "Hero Tracks" and read the first piece.

Sometimes, you have to tell yourself what you really think. . . . write it out so you can see it. . . . that's what this was all about. I needed to figure out my philosophy, and this is my first shot at it. Some of you may recognize the story from another article I wrote, but its changed a little.

Out of this, I hope, comes a direction in research. And out of that comes, I hope, a perspective that encourages and strengthens boys and men within their families and communities.

There you go! No more of that on this "family" site. But if you're interested, check it out.

Dust

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

Where we live. . . .


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The apartment complex where we live is easy to spot from the top of Arthur's Seat. It is shaped like a crescent (or horseshoe)and is a little bit away from the top right corner of this picture.

When I go for a run, its usually from there and around the park road that circles Arthur's Seat.

If you imagine the picture spreading to the right, you get a view of the castle and the old town area.
Dust

Some New Links In the Right Column

Check out some new links in the right column. . .

After hearing from a friend who took my "Magnolia" suggestion and tried watching the film and was disgusted, I put a link to a review that has other people's thoughts about the film as well. I love what the film has to say about forgiveness, and the truth that no one is lost no matter how depraved. But to make that point, you have to watch the first part of the film to see the depravity--it's a set up. I stand by what the film says and believe it says it unlike anything else I've watched in my life.

Also. . . .

New links to some books I've read lately:

"Bono on Bono" is a must read for anyone interested in the developing world's nations and what we're doing since Bono is on the forefront of that. However, he's an amazing poet and artist and to use Bob Dylan's words, "Spending time with Bono is like eating dinner on a train--feels like you're moving, going somewhere. Bono's got the soul of an ancient poet and you have to be careful around him. He can roar 'til the earth shakes. He's also a closet philosopher."

Well said, Bob!
Dust

Saturday, August 20, 2005

Kite Chasing


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There was a guy flying a kite on top of the hill. It's out of sight in this picture, but the girls had a lot of fun chasing it around and almost leaping off the edge of Arthur's Seat!

It was a beautiful day.

The Fam on Arthur's Seat


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We finally made it up Arthur's Seat! Lily and Zoe were troopers and made it up without too many rest stops. You can see the entire city of Edinburgh, and we took a bunch of pictures.

If you're interested, click on the "Get Kunky Pics Here" link on the right and watch the slideshow under "Views from Arthur's Seat."

D & J on Arthur's Seat


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Lily took this picture. Not bad, eh?!

Thursday, August 18, 2005

Miss Independance!


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I knew this day would come....I just didn't think that it would be today. I guess I was thinking maybe on her wedding day or perhaps dropping her off to college but today--the first day of Primary One? We got up this morning early because Lily was so excited for school. We got to school, met the teacher found her coat peg, her cubbie and all the first day of "big" school stuff when Lily kissed each of us and said "okay, you can go now." I couldn't believe it, my own daughter, my "baby" was telling me to leave. I don't think there is any way that a "mum" can prepare herself for the flight of her first little chick but what did I expect, we raised her to be an independant girl and she is!

Needless to say Lily in her little school uniform, pink backpack and lunch sack had a great day and was eager to hold my hand once school was over. Hopefully she'll want to hold my hand for years to come.

Janette

Tuesday, August 16, 2005

Zoe's First Day at Nursery (Preschool)


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The University Nursery is just around the corner from our flat. Lily is hugging goodbye to her sister here. Notice the matching red shoes! Zoe had a wonderful time and has already made numerous friends. The nursery is incredible, and has a HUGE backyard space with lots of fun kid stuff to do (garden, sandbox, swings, toys, games and more). Lily starts her first day at Preston Street Primary in two days. MORE PICTURES ON THE FLICKR SITE WHICH CAN BE ACCESSED IN THE RIGHT COLUMN.

Zorro


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Hallo. . . My name is Mini-Zorro. You WILL let me mark you with a "Z!"

Monday, August 15, 2005

Of Guitars, Harmonicas, Street-Singing and Curious Dogs

I went downtown today and played my guitar and harmonica and sang for about 3 1/2 hours non-stop. A LONG time to do that kind of thing. (Sorry, no pictures. Janette and the girls stayed home for the regular Monday "tea time" with the women at the flat) The Kunkel family is extremely tight on the finances these days--girls need school uniforms, we all need to eat, and the student loan was held up because of some computer or technical issue. So I decided to go use the only real skill I've got and make a few "quid" for the fam. I can't carpenter, plumb, or lawyerize. But I can play the guitar and harmonica, and sing.

It's not something I necessarily really wanted to do -- stand on a street with my guitar case open and 100's of people walking by, most of them not stopping to listen or even look.

How do you give away something precious when people won't stop to receive it?

But I sang and played anyway, watched the people walk by, literally every color and size and type of person you could imagine under the sun. . . .

The children would always look. Many would want to stop and listen, if even for a little bit. Some parents would relent and stop with their children. Most would pull them along--"we have something to do, somewhere to go. . ."

I got into the groove, and fell into "the zone" which is a wonderful place to go-- the music and song swell within you and you just ride the wave of the tune and the feeling in it, and you reach out with it to anyone who goes by. I'll always enjoy that, no matter where I'm at.

But I noticed something interesting: I got money from very few people. And of those who gave, none of them dressed rich, or well, or looked like they had much to give.

There were people eating on the sidewalk at two restaurants nearby. Many of them sat there for over an hour eating and listening to me play. Most of them gave nothing.

A young woman was sitting with her friends, and I could tell she was listening intently. In fact, she started mouthing the words to the Alison Kraus song, "When You Say Nothing At All," when I sang it. I couldn't believe it! I didn't think there would be anyone who knew that in Edinburgh.

She came over as they were leaving, and in her hands were two apples and 1/2 of a russian chocolate bar. She said, "I have no money left. But would you take these?"

I said, "Yes. I have two daughters who'll love the apples and chocolate."

She smiled and put them in the guitar case next to the few pence people had thrown in.

I said, "Cheers." (for those who don't know, a term used loosely in the UK for everything from saying thanks to goodbye to excuse me)

I played a lot of harmonica with the songs, just because for the average passer-by it adds so much to a tune. . . . that, and I love doing it anyway. As I got more and more tired, and it seemed that more and more people were walking by not paying any attention, I got more and more bluesy.

This culminated in a rip-roaring rendition of an old bluesy rock n' roll tune that I cut my teeth on when I taught myself to play the guitar at age 14. The infamous "I'm going to Kansas City."

My favorite line is singing, ". . . they've got some crazy little women there and I'm gonna get me one."

By the time I was done with that, my fingers were like pieces of raw meat and had passed beyond the "oh man it hurts bad" stage. They just throbbed. The beer that people were drinking at the outdoor tables looked really, really good. I'd forgotten to bring water.

A bum came rambling up during the next song, with his dog. He was drunk. The bum, not the dog. But the dog--a cute little half-grown mutt of some kind--started sniffing at my harmonicas on the ground to the right of my feet. I slid over, still playing and singing, and pushed the harmonicas between my feet. I like dogs. I don't like dog slobber on my harmonicas.

The bum stood--swayed--next to me and kept offering me a cigarette from a pack that was empty because he was smoking the last one. I kept nodding at him, but I decided the song was too good to just stop. A young couple over at the cafe were pulling out their camera. The dog started sniffing in the guitar case. I was thinking to myself, as I kept time on the guitar and leaped into the harmonica bridge, "Please don't throw up or pee in my case." When a dog has to pee, it can happen suddenly. You know, the old "mark my territory" quick lift. . . . He didn't do it, but he did stick his nose in the case and snozzle it.

The couple at the cafe took a picture, laughing.

They didn't put any money in the case either.

And the bum and his pup tottered off. The pup wanted to stay, but for the sake of the guitar case (and the health of the pup) I'm glad they went.

It was an interesting day.

At least I didn't get rained on.

And I made minimum wage (5 pounds an hour) for doing something that I love to do--at least, I think I love to do it on a sidewalk with people walking by and dogs eagerly trying to do something illegal in my guitar case.
Dust

Sunday, August 14, 2005

The Sides and Kunkel Families (minus Lily and Zoe)

We had a wonderful visit last week with the Sides. They were traveling through Scotland and England on holiday, and spent a few days in Edinburgh. We ate many great seafood meals (I highly recommend the Chili Mussel Pot--at least 30 mussels!), talked and walked together, "musuemed" together, and had a grand old time. Thanks Jim, Sharon, Brad and Doug for the wonderful memories!

Friday, August 12, 2005

"Famine or Feast" (A.K.A. "For Poorer or Poorer!")

14 people interviewed. . . .

1 chosen. . . .

We just got the call today: Janette has work as an administrative receptionist and assistant at a large medical clinic!

Incredible--considering most businesses here will hire a native Scot over a North American. Incredible--considering there were many, many applicants, and still many interviewees.

The phone rang, but I was in the other room in thanks and praise listening and agreeing with the song on the stereo in the kitchen:

". . . . Famine or feast,
I'm on my knees.
Lookin' for the answers
To things I can't see.
In times of jubilation,
Or waiting for release,
Time we all pray to the Lord--famine or feast.

You may say,
time to pray
is every now & then.
I tell you twice,
Jesus Christ--
He's no fair-weather friend.
He ain't no fair weather friend."


Steve Wiggins says it much better than I could. He was singin' the words and backin' it with some old-school rock n'roll, and I was hollerin' along, and the phone rang and Janette went to answer it, and she got the job.

Famine or feast.

One thing we're learning is that God isn't a fair-weather friend.

We don't need to be either.

We praise Him for Who He is and thank Him through all things. And ALL things means famine as well as feast.

I told Janette the other day, "I'll bet you didn't realize when you said 'for richer or poorer' you were agreeing to this."

She just smiled at me.

"Yeah," she answered, "For poorer or poorer would be more accurate."

Famine or feast, my friends.
Dust

PS. What this new job does for us, in case you were wondering about the hard numbers, is that we still need about $500/month to meet our minimal budget. But that's much better than what we needed before Janette got the job!

Saturday, August 06, 2005

The Fam Again. . . .


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Read the picture notes below this one to see where we are!

The Fam Overlooking Old Town


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We went out for a little picnic with the girls and some friends today. Calton Hill overlooks the entire town and you have great views of the Queen's palace at Holyrood, Arthur's Seat, The Crags, Old Town, The Castle and the Firth (Bay) of Forth. It was a little windy, but we've come to understand this as normal!

Daddy-Daughter Day

A few days ago I took each daughter (separately) on what has come to be known as "Daddy-Daughter Day."

Components of a D.D.D.:

Walking

Holding hands

Going into any store she chooses

Buying sweets (candy)

Drinking hot chocolate

Eating at least one ice cream cone

Talking

Riding for at least half the time on Daddy's shoulders (Zoe has a habit of exclaiming to passers-by, "I'm taller than you!" as we walk by them)

Handling dresses and picking up ballerina outfits and using words like "Oooh," and "Wow!" and "You make that dress look incredible."

Pointing out weird people to each other

Dancing at least once to a bagpiper (there's one on most corners downtown these days)

Staring into each other's eyes and saying "I love you" every chance we get.


The great thing about Edinburgh is that you don't have to load into a car to go to a mall to experience time with your daughter!

You just walk and talk and window shop and enjoy each other.

With that said, its amazing how different the two of them are.

Lily was all about checking out the stores with beads, bracelets, earrings, head bands, dresses and so on.

Zoe just wanted ice cream, and the topic kept coming up every minute or so until we got some. Of course, by then, she had also eaten fries, so the ice cream sat in the cup, melting slowly, slopping all over Dad's hand as he carried it through the crowds hoping that she would want to eat it at some point--every parent hates to waste an uneaten ice cream!

I often wonder what Dads can give little girls. According to many people these days, we're not really necessary. Little girls can get along without us.

But. . . .

Who would run out to the playground and threaten bodily harm to the child that just pushed you over? Mom? She would look funny doing it.

Who would sweep you off your feet and hold you in a crowd of strangers and tell you, "Its okay. I've got you"?

Who would look at you and say these precious words: "YOU make that dress look beautiful!"? (not, "that dress makes you look beautiful.") After all, I've seen you running around like Eve in the garden, and you ARE beautiful without any dress at all.

Who would carry you for hours on his shoulders when you're tired?

Who will grab you as you fall from the bike, a 1/2 second before your knee scrapes across the pavement?

Who would take the brunt of life squarely on his chin so you can play with your friends, go to school, make 5-hour long phone calls, and do all the other things that little girls do?

Who will be the mirror -- by patient presence reflects your inner beauty back to you. A beauty not built on what boys think, or built on what the World tells you you should be, or even what your friends think about you. . . .

I'm not patting myself on the back.

More like reminding myself that my purpose is essential, not secondary. Mom builds the shelter and the roof of love in your life. But I'll be the foundation. And because I'm just a silly, absent-minded man, I forget that sometimes, and need reminding.

So here's to Daddy-Daughter Day!

And all the daddys out there makin' it happen, or any daddys that need a little remindin'.


Dust

Friday, August 05, 2005

Overheard. . . .

On the phone with her friend from Oregon, Lily tells her:

"We went to the Queen's palace. . . well, we only saw half of it, BUT we saw her real sword and her real crown and her real scepter. And the scepter still works!"

We're Online Again!

There was much rejoicing today when the modem finally arrived . . . . no more buying a coffee or tea at the cafe to pay for the "free" wi fi. . . .

There is some new stuff for you to check out, if you're into the Kunkys:

1. Check out the flickr site (picture link to the right) and see new pictures as well as "sets" which are groups of pictures with a common theme. You can even watch them as a slide show.

2. Both companion sites to the this one have new posts (see the right column for the links)

3. Lift up thoughts and prayers for Janette who has experienced a mysterious rash on her arms and legs--very painful and keeps her up at nights--for over two weeks now. She's trying some new allergy meds and hopefully that will help, but prayers are always better and more effectual!

4. Lily rode her bike yesterday for the first time, with pedals. Dust took off the pedals when we first got it, so she learned to balance and use both brakes going downhill before she ever pedalled. The amazing thing is that once the pedals were on, she was riding within 10 minutes because she had the balance-thing down!